5 REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD HEAL

Her relationship with the guy she thought was 'the perfect one' ended on a very sad
note despite her efforts to make the relationship work, it still failed.

She made so many sacrifices and watched them go down the drain, it was such an abusive relationship. 

She began a movement against domestic violence. Anytime I listen to her speak I can feel pain in her voice and blunt stand against men and marriages.

Close interactions with her may make you not want to have anything to do with men or marriages at all.

It's obvious she hasn't healed from all she went through as she's still very much offended over what had happened.

Sadly, We all have experiences we wish we could replay and make them 'not happen' but unfortunately we cannot make that happen, not in this life.

Yours may be a rough childhood, an abuse experience, whatever it may be. 

We must realise we all need healing in some areas of our lives and true healing only comes from GOD.

There are things we have to live with but how you live with it is truly what matters. 

Purple Light has a community and we discussed intensively about healing and forgiveness. I am delighted to share with you five reasons why you should heal

A) YOU DESERVE MORE

You do not deserve to stay hurt. You deserve to enjoy life and enjoy it to the fullest. YOUR LIFE IS A BIG DEAL TO GOD AND TO HUMANITY. 

There is a high standard God has set for us and we all need to live up to it. 

When you are hurting you are only going to see the opposite and fall short of God's standard.

So no matter what you've been through, know you are more and you deserve more.

B) HURTING PEOPLE WILL HURT OTHER PEOPLE 

The truth is there are certain ways we behave and people behave towards us that are clearly because we are hurting.

A woman who hasn't healed from a previous heartbreak will end up hurting her new partner even if he loves her heaven and earth. 

That's how destructive it is not to heal. She will interpret his actions to be that of her previous partners.

Even if it results in marriage, you do not want to know how turbulent that marriage will be because someone didn't make intentional efforts to heal.

If you do not want to be toxic to others, you need to heal.

People may not even tell you, they will just withdraw from you because of your problem. 

C) GOD CANNOT USE YOU HURT 

God has special plans for your life. 

God wants to use you but he cannot use you hurt, you will end up hurting the people God wants you to reach out to. 

Here on earth we have great women and God is still in the business of making more great women but he cannot find expression through you till you heal.

We've got great woman who will be David's, Esther's, Mary's, Deborah's- don't doubt your Greatness. 

Allow God heal you by freely giving your life to him, remember if you try to keep your life you will end up losing it- so your life is safer in God.

 D) NOT HEALING NOR LETTING GO IS KILLING YOURSELF

Your healing is your responsibility but God has promised to be WITH YOU AND IN YOU

The truth is it is very difficult to talk about such issues, It is very hard and that is why people prefer to hide them under the carpet, but you will discover it is killing you instead. 

At a time I was going through a lot, it weighed me down and i was depressed.

I was ashamed of it, I began to physically feel it. I felt I was choking or something is stuck in my throat. I knew God wanted me to let go of a few things that period but it was hard.

If you do not let go and heal, I'm sorry you are dying little by little. So is forgiveness, you are not doing the offenders a favour by forgiving, you are doing you. 

E) LASTLY TIME DOESN'T HEAL ALL WOUNDS

'Time heals all wounds' is something we have all come to believe in our society but it totally isn't true. 

It is possible to live many years in pain as passing time doesn't mean 'passing pain'

You need to take intentional steps for your healing or you will wake up and discover time changed nothing. 

I hope you ponder on all these and see reasons to take your healing more seriously. 

That's your decision to make NOW.

It is very important that you heal before you deal in life.

I will like to ask you 

Have you healed?

To heal means to be whole, to be free, to be restored.

My emphasis is on being FREE.

Have you healed from negative words said over your life?

Do you still hold grudges against your abusers or offenders?

Do you have wounds that you do not want to revisit at all?

Are you harbouring hatred for someone who deeply hurt you?

If you do, no problem at all. You just need time to work on yourself and make sure you heal completely before you go forward with all your endeavors. 

I pray God helps you heal from all unpalatable experiences life has thrown at you.

Amen!

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